| |
The
eldest member of the family then writes on this paper:
Uttar ka ghora,
Dakshin ka neer Paschim ka varda, Purab ka cheer
The month, date and year are added to the paper and it is glued
on with atta (dough) near the gods. A puja thali (plate), containing
the roli, aipun and rice in their respective katoris, some and a coconut,
is tastefully decorated. In some cases, this thali also as glass full
of wine, whisky or rum placed along with the rest of the prasad (Dusshera
is a feast celebrating victory in war, and so, alcohol is allowed even
in puja).
First of all, teeka is put on the forehead of the gods and goddesses,
and the then youngest girl of the house applies the teeka on the forehead of
all the members present.She uses her right hand thumb and puts an oblong
teeka with a little rice on it for men, and a small bindi, using the tip
of her third finger, on the forehead of the women. Everyone then worships
the gods and the weapons, etc., as usual-first with water, then with aipun
and roli and, lastly, with rice. If flowers are available, their petals
are also showered. The eldest lady member present then picks up the nariyal
(coconut) along with some sheaves of millet, some batashas, a fruit, a
little mithai, one paan, a pencils or a pen (usually belonging to the
individual to whom the prasad is being given). The receiver holds the
two hands together and accepts the prasad. .Those
receiving it touch the prasad to their forehead; they then take some sheaves
of the jowar and put them on top of one ear. They can then place the prasad
back onto the thali- a little peice of mithai or a batasha should be
taken and eaten there and then. Each person then picks up his or her own
pen or pencils and individually dips it seven times into the alcohol and
then into an inkpot, saying:
"Hey Prabhu meri kalam mein aisi teji ho,
jaisi ki is sharaab mein hai." (O God let my pen gain as much sharpness,
as is in this alcohol).
|
|